Rejection is really a big deal for people to deal with. Can I ask why? How come ‘No’ or ‘Refuse to accept’ is rude. It hurts. Yes, it does but you don’t have to take this in your heart and cry about it rather just take it in your mind and change what is needed to be changed. When someone rejects you, you start doubting yourself, your qualities, your awesomeness, you get uncertain about yourself. Seriously why? just because you were rejected.. nobody is born to accept you in a way you want them to(brutal truth) but that doesn’t make you inferior or any less than others.
Everyone has been through this and some are going through so here is small advice… “Don’t give so much power to someone’s opinion, judgements, or Rejection that will make you judge yourself because that’s the most worse thing you can do to you.
It’s not just relationships I am talking about it also includes friendships, business, dream job, anything and everything that you want, desire and love. If the worst ‘NO’ is standing with you right now then trust me the best ‘YES’ is just ahead of you. Waiting only for you.
Learn to accept rejection it will make your life easier. It shouldn’t be “Why not me ? Am I not capable or Don’t I deserve” rather it should be “Why can’t I try something that will make things better? or What is that I need to improve? Or Why can’t I accept myself in a way I am why do I need others consent “… keep a positive attitude and it will change your life.
Rejection comes in your way to teach you how to savour Acceptance.
Devangshri Dixit